[31] next, those who are decent and honorable in their intercourse with all with whom they associate, tolerating easily and good-naturedly what is unpleasant or offensive in others and being themselves as agreeable and reasonable to their associates as it is possible to be; furthermore, those who hold their pleasures always under control[35] and are not unduly overcome by their misfortunes,[36] bearing up under them bravely and in a manner worthy of our common nature;